淡然的女人让你欣赏

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春的花开花落使女人疲惫,四季的风花雪月让女人不堪憔悴,世事的纷乱,滚滚的红尘,磨砺着女人细腻柔软的心。迈过了三十岁的人生,开始慢慢步出热烈、灿烂的青春季节,岁月不只是刻在女人的脸上,更沉淀在女人的心里。这时的女人,精神被一种淡然、从容、柔和的氛围所包围。淡淡的风、淡淡的云伴随的是淡淡的梦、淡淡的情,不再有年少时的无病呻吟。这时的女人更像一杯清茶,“落花无言,人淡如菊”,煎茶闻香,养心颐性。

  淡然的女人崇尚简单的生活,淡淡地来,淡淡地去,少而又少的出头露面换来的是灵性的清净,对人生、对社会的宽容和不苛求,得到的是自己内心的宁静和有条不紊。淡然的女人对工作和事业努力着,兢兢业业着,足以维持体面,但不忘乎所以,女强人不是她们,因为她们知道,人生需要执著,但更重要的还是随缘。

  简单地活着,善良、率直、坦荡,就使女人有时间和心情去品评人生的况味,享受人生的乐趣。滚滚红尘中,淡然的女人拒绝练就那种江湖油滑的性格,爱自己胜过爱一切人。淡然的女人会在世事的牵累、终日的忙碌中,偷出 空闲,修饰自己滋养自己,用自己淡然的心境去呵护那长长的秀发,呈现出来的是清晨阳光般的笑容,端庄的气度,深厚的内涵。

  职场的拼杀之余,白日的尘埃落定,灯下的女人会读一点书,看一段散文,修复日渐粗粝的灵魂,使自己依然温婉和悦。爱上一个人,千丝万缕的心事托付于温柔宽容地待他,岁月离合,执子之手,生死契阔。江湖之中,放达宽厚,修炼从容的情态,健康的心智。

  淡然的女人知道,爱恨情仇,恩怨得失,虽无法忘记,但可以宽宥,把沧桑隐藏在心底,让一切慢慢沉淀在记忆里,因为自己清楚,有些记忆的惟一归宿是从心灵到坟墓。远离刻薄和庸俗,明白什么是爱,什么不是爱;什么是属于自己的,什么是不属于自己的。女人活着要有自己的目标,它可以大可以小可以崇高也可以平凡,但不能没有。

  淡然的女人像秋叶般的静美,淡淡地来,淡淡地去,淡淡地相处,给人以宁静,给人以淡淡的欲望,活得简单而有味道。这种淡然实在是一种人生难以企及的境界,也是我等俗人所一直追慕的。


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