╭*※*╯ 幸福之花开在伤口上 ╭*※*╯
个人日记
去参加聚会,几位朋友恰巧都是事业成功家庭美满的女性,又正值花样年华,个个优雅魅力,笑语嫣然,幸福全写在笑容明媚的脸上.几个人聊的热闹,便有人提议,说说各自对幸福的见解.
先开口的是位商界精英,生意做得风生水起.她嫁了小自己10岁的帅哥,他阳光,俊朗,朝气蓬勃,能一口气把她背到8楼,情人节结婚纪念日甚至妇女节,都有大把的玫瑰相送,两人一起出门时必定穿情侣装,每天晚上会亲自温水,为她洗脚.去年她刚刚生了宝宝,一家人其乐融融.
晒完了幸福,她话锋一转,说现在的老公其实是第二任.她的前夫是个特别挑剔的人,衣服没有熨展,皮鞋没有擦净,甚至因为她躺在沙发上的姿势不好看,都会找她大吵一顿.这段充满了硝烟和战争的婚姻生活,最终以男人的出轨而告终.短短几个月内,离婚,生意惨败,老父病故,人生的寒露秋霜呼啸而至,她几乎被击垮.但伤口总会愈合,而接踵而来的幸福,因了那些伤痛的滋养,越发开得娇艳灿烂.
第二位开口的是位全职主妇,老公是一家公司的老总,虽然长了她30岁,却是那种顽劣可爱充满童真的男人.他为她买了房配了车,工作在忙也会带她去旅行,她想要天上的星星,他也敢上九天揽月,总之,他宠她宠的不像话.这段当初不被家人朋友看好的婚姻,却把她滋养得水嫩如花.
其实她这也是第二次婚姻.离婚那年她才24岁,前夫是公认的美男子,英俊潇洒白衣胜雪,有做得一手好菜.有这样既养眼又养心的男人陪在身边,她幸福的做梦都要笑出声来.可惜她的幸福只持续了短短8个月,美男便傍上了富婆,不告而别.人生突遭如此重创,她的心结了冰.是现在的老公,用他的温柔和疼爱,一点点把她暖了过来,给了她舒适自在的生活.而她,因为有过那样的经历,愈加懂得珍惜现在的幸福.
第三位朋友是位作家,文字精致独到,把爱和美演绎得淋漓尽致.只是,如此优雅美丽的女子却因为一次意外,终身只能坐在轮椅上.所幸的是,她遇到一位温柔体贴的男人.他安安稳稳地守着她,做饭,洗衣,为她洗澡按摩,推她出去散步;每次朋友聚会,他抱她上车下车,背她上楼下楼;她只要一个眼神,他马上就知道她需要什么......那份细致入微的呵护,令所有人羡慕.
她说:"我人生最黑暗的时候,比你们都要绝望.一场车祸,让我丢了爱情,失去工作,生活拮据,前途无光,犹如世界末日来临.每天,在那间光线暗淡的小屋里,我只有拼命敲击键盘,期盼能用我的文字改变命运.父母最发愁的是我的婚事,没有男人肯接受一个不能走路的女子......"
此刻,她看着身边的男人,温婉一笑,总结说:"幸福之花,其实都是开在伤口之上的.因为我们体会过伤痛和艰辛,经受过挫折和磨难.最悲惨的时候,上帝几乎拿走了我们的一切,但好在,他留下了我们的生命.所以,当有一天,我们终于从泥淖中站起来时,就变成了容易快乐,容易满足,容易幸福的女人!"
一屋子的人都被感染了......
原来,幸福从不偶然,更不侥幸.它只在那些经历磨难和疼痛的心坎上,悄悄地抽芽,生长.直到有一天,你突然发现,那些伤口早已愈合,而上面,幸福之花正灿然开放.
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