人过中年后要做的几件事
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人过中年后要做的几件事
一 .沉淀朋友
“穷在大路无人问，富住深山有远亲”。也别管它是亲戚还是“朋友”，势利眼的人多着呢，随便抓一把一把的。在你生活的低潮和困境时，向你伸出温暖的那双手才是你的朋友，千万不要相信在你富贵时的那些甜言蜜语——假的。因为狗戴上帽子后也会迷惑你的眼神儿：“嘿，哥们儿，酒去。”这酒杯一端“感情深一口闷”的豪气，邻桌的疑似你好像也带着他那样的帽子。
二 .淡定心情
这个年龄段已经不允许你不成熟了。要知道，对发生在身边的事，你已经完成了从“看不惯”到“看得惯”这个过程了，如果你还不习惯，说明你心里还不够成熟。别去怨完山神怨土地。自己和自己过不去，自己给自己添堵。
三 .播种善良
一定要极尽自己所能及之事，让那些比你苦、比你难的人感受到这世上的阳光和美丽。这样的善良要经常播种，不意间，就会开出最美丽的人性之花来。播种善良是在给自己“修心”。
四 .培养爱好
琴棋书画，花鸟虫鱼总有一款适应你，一定要给自己培养一种爱好。它会洗涤你的身心，打开你的记忆和想象，铺陈你的浪漫。当你全身心地投入时，更会给你带来意想不到的宁静和享受。还有摄影、收藏……它们都是日子中的味精，点点滴滴中让我们的生活有了滋味。
五 .得失随缘
尘间有两苦，一是得不到之苦，二是钟情之苦。
在你付诸努力的前提下，所有的、想得到的都当作一场赌。胜之坦然；败之淡然。得之我幸，失之我命，世间最苦是钟情，纵然是夫妻也莫过如此，有缘則聚，无缘则散。好在这年龄已过了“激情燃烧的岁月”，冷静自己还是有一定把握的。说到底，人生都是独行者。
六 .学会承受
有些事情需要无声无息地忘记，经过一次，就长一次智慧；有些苦痛和烦恼需要你自己默默地去承受；历炼一次；丰富一次。你的苦痛和烦恼不要指望别人的怜悯和同情。自己梦自己圆，解铃还需系铃人，这才是你心灵之痛最好的补药。
七 .常念感恩
经历了是一种财富。当我们参加完葬礼，总会涌起一些感慨；当我们大病初愈，总会有万般的珍惜。感恩的心一定要时时保留，它不仅让你怜惜一沙一石、一草一枝，还会让你淡漠某种无形的压力，平抚你的欲望和争斗，更多的时候，有一些幸福的感觉也往往来自于此。
八 . 勤于读书
读书和学习都是在和智慧聊天，用别人的经验，长自己的智慧，何乐而不为。把读书变成一种习惯，你的有些思想来源于此，有些见解也来源于此。并且还能医愚，还会长久地保持你的个性魅力。
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