随笔&lt18&gt出轨个人日记

随笔&lt18&gt出轨

个人日记

人们习惯把性放进情感领域考量,其实它是"半人半神"体,它跟情感相关,但根植于身体,它跟精神相伴,但受到财产左右,它是古老的基因,软弱的受惊者,美好的花蕾和天生的叛徒.

一场家庭危机
----如果可以叫做危机的话----一定由诸多因素堆积而成,核心因素与财产相关,这时候,当事人对眼前的一切都不满意,这时候,彼此安慰成为首选.

安慰改变不了现实,但可以平复破碎的心------心随着物质的破碎而破碎,并持续破碎,亲人的安慰其实是彼此担当,让心在败局中得以保全.

如果,一个人觉得自己更有权沮丧,更有权喜怒无常,更有权先获得安慰,冷漠将会像严霜一样降临在这个家庭,他们会转向外界寻求安慰,这太容易了,任何男人的肩膀都成了停靠的港湾,任何女人温软的怀抱都成了忘忧的梦乡,在一系列幻觉的指导下,性终于跳出笼子,代替思想.

性能成事,也能败事,在人败的时候,性背叛让人败得彻底,假如把性称为一个游荡者,它并没有家,它不会走到哪里停下,而要永远游走,人在败局之中,会通过性的背叛而得以挽救吗?绝不会,只能更糟糕,所谓身体的背叛必然导致婚姻契约的废止以及财产的重新划分,一切都会缩水,而情感帐户的缩水永远得不到复原,泼在地上的水怎么也收不进碗里.

单向出轨和双向出轨以及竞相出轨,都怨不得性,只是跟性相关而己,关系更大的是人的价值观,人生难免有败局,挽救股市楼市总不能仰仗婚外情吧?这是最为无能的一计,此计一出,败不可收.

人心的"恶"中,有一种行为叫"报复"然而失落者,怨尤者,背叛者用出轨报复不了出轨,用性报复不了性,没有目标的报复只能算荒谬,在岔路上又岔了一路.

有人这样说

呵呵,与白菜无关

百分之四十的妻子是茶,或浓或涩,总有一番滋味,只是喝久了嫌淡:百分之三十的妻子是水,一点味道都没有,可一天不喝都不行:百分之二十的妻子是果汁,色彩鲜艳,营养丰富,不过可能含有人工添加剂:百分之十的妻子是酒,喝多了醉人,喝少了怡人,不喝放着也很惹人.

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