坦然看生活

人生感悟

余秋雨












 

活着真叫累，有人这么感喟。
活着真叫烦，更有人这么嘘叹。
活着真美丽，而我却喜欢这么对生活绾结。
寻找了千百种理由之后，才得以发现：生活在我的视野下呈现出与别人的不同，不是生活赐予我有什么不同，却仅仅是因为，在我的胸襟之中，盈盈地盛满这么两个字：坦然。
我坦然，于是我心美丽。我心美丽，于是我的人生跟着美丽。
曾经看到了那些假日垂钓者，一大早出门，夕阳之下拎着空空的鱼篓回家的时候，仍是一路欢歌，不禁讶然：付出了一天的等待却一无所获，怎么还可以这般快乐满怀?给我的回答却是：鱼不咬我的钩那是它的事，我却钓上来一天的快乐!对钓鱼的人来说，原来最好的那条鱼便是快乐。
坦然是一种失意后的乐观。
曾经看到那些下零点班的纺织女工，写满倦意的脸上却交织着与朝霞一样灿烂的笑靥，我便想：怎么说女孩子从事这种职业也不是最让人满意的呀？给我的回答却是：公主永远只有一个。但如果没人为她织出那么多彩锦，一个公主也没有哇！对织布的人来说，原来最美丽的那匹布却是穿在了自己的身上。
坦然是沮丧时的一种调适。
曾经看到了一个扫了三十几年大街的老伯，每天把一条长长的大街扫得一尘不染，让上早班的人粲然走过。我便想：这么几十年这样平平淡淡地走过，这老伯可以说是小城里生活得最不顺心的一个了？给我的回答却是：这条街只有我扫得最干净。对扫街的人来说，原来扫得最清洁的恰恰是自己的心。
坦然是平淡中的自信。
忽然想起来泰戈尔的最有名的一句诗："天空不留下鸟的痕迹，但我已飞过。"这不便是对"坦然"作了最好的诠释？
是的，许多的事得失成败我们不可预料，也承担不起。我们只需尽力去做，求得一份付出之后的坦然和快乐；许多的人我们捉摸不透，防不胜防、往往是我们想走近，人家却早巳设起屏障。我们不必计较，我们惟一能做的是，在我们必须面对他们的时候，奉上我们的真心，然后感铭自己的博大；许多的选择如果能让我们抓住，有可能抵达我们的成功，但我们一次次失却机会。没有关系，那只是命运剥夺了你活得高贵的权利，却没有剥夺你活得伟大的权利。


记住：没有蓝天的深邃可以有白云的飘逸；没有大海的壮阔可以有小溪的悠雅；没有原野的芬芳但可以有小草的翠绿！生活中没有旁观者的席位，我们总能找到自己的位置，自己的光源，自己的声音！

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江豚

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江豚

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