╭*★*╯男女之间那点事儿╭*★*╯

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男女之间那点事儿

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男女之间那份情,就像一团乱麻,剪不断,理还乱,总是那样的纠结,总是永远有说不完的话题。

当浪漫的岁月进入了美丽的花季,年轻的生命充满着青春的活力,五百年的情缘轻拍着音律轻柔随之而来!

爱情原本是心灵感应,我,遇见了纯情美丽娇柔的你;你,遇见了多情温柔浪漫的我!在一个意外的时间,意外的地点相遇,拥有了生命中不是意外的爱恋,让生命中痴情的梦想还原了本应当此生不能再错过、而一定要相守在一起的意义!多少年来的执着,多少年来的梦!在那一瞬间感动!一个爱恋的世纪里,丽影伴着如花的笑靥,那优美的芳姿素描出万般风韵,一对男女在款款深情的拥吻中陶醉了一个时尚的年代,目眸里含着晶莹的幸福,试用百年相遇情缘演绎着纯真的爱情。

正是如此,热恋中卿卿我我的两人会忽略对方的缺点,而夸大对方的优点。对未来充满美好的憧憬,甚至追求不切实际的幻想。西方有一句谚语说:“我们因为不了解而结婚,因为了解而分离。”还有一位哲学家也曾说过:“你们自以为相互之间在婚前已经十分了解了,其实,你们在结婚以后会发现在枕边睡的是另一个人”。热恋中的男女一旦步入婚姻的殿堂,面对更多的是普普通通的生活,是柴米油盐酱醋茶的日子,两个人接触的多了,也会有很多对方不能接受的地方暴露出来,少了那份激情,多了生活的琐碎,爱情不再含苞迷人,绽放绚丽。

人具有贪婪的本性,主要表现在对美好事物的追求和占有欲。人之所以是人,就是因为人应该具备了一定的伦理道德观念与操守,因此人总是在贪婪和伦理道德之间矜持着。现在一些人们好像更多的是追求了一些肉体的情欲了,表面上还打者追求爱情的幌子,其实这并不是什么爱情了,这无非是一场满足私欲的游戏而已。但更多的人追求的是幸福的生活。

很多人想象中的爱情必须是经典、激情、浪漫,充满诱惑且让人感动,还希望让这种爱情永恒,能地老天荒。但是,这毕竟仅仅是我们的一相情愿。这种爱情象火柴燃烧,刹那间放射出炫丽的光芒,能将两颗心融化。甚至有人愿意用尽一生的激情去燃烧只为了享受这短暂的幸福。所有划过的火柴都只是美丽的瞬间,所有的心动都只能慢慢沉淀下来,它无法温暖你的一生。当它燃尽,那硝烟的清香会顷刻化为乌有,留下的是无尽的失落。其实,所有的绚丽都是短暂的,它最终都会归于平静。

如果说爱情是花朵,那婚姻则是果实。花是美丽的,果实是希望的结果,美丽的延续。也许和一个人呆久了,感觉不到他存在的重要性;可当他突然不在的时候,却似乎感觉到缺少了些什么,就象自己的左手和右手,每天在一起相互配合着,彼此感觉不到存在的重要性,可当一只手突然消失的时候,另一只手才会感觉到非常的不适应,少了一只手的配合,什么都做不好。

随着岁月的磨合,爱情逐渐转为一种亲情。男女之间几乎融为一体,爱到把对方当成自己身体的一部分,是不能缺少的。也许这时会感觉不到那么爱情的甜密,觉得一切都是那么平淡;但是你会感觉到生活中的那分安宁与幸福!

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生活本来就应该是平淡的。爱情归于平淡后的生活是朴实无华的,象炉火,它能给你一生的温暖。它没有耀眼的光芒,没有炙烈的火焰,但它却让你心静如水,让你舒适,能陪着熬过无数个漫漫冬夜。当你从寒冷中回到家里,伸出冰冷的手,让淡淡的炉火烤着,你的心也会温暖起来。所有的激情最终都会归于一种平淡,我愿守着这一炉暖融融的火度过温馨而平淡的生活。正如有一首歌:“我能想到最浪漫的事,就是和你一起慢慢变老,直到我们老得哪儿也去不了,你还依然把我当成手心里的宝。”这样的爱情,是在平凡真实的生活中才能体现出来的。
虽然生活不可能一帆风顺,经历得住风雨、坎坷的生活才算得上真正的生活。“执子之手,与子携老”,跟相爱的人一同分享生活的幸福是一种恩赐,也是件最快乐的事情。一个人时,善待自己,两个人时,善待对方,相互维系,那么这份爱情能让你的生命因此而光彩照人。
家,是避风躲雨的港湾,有了幸福的家,才会有好心情。


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