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我刚上线,QQ对话框里就出来一段话:怎么好久了都不见你上网?是我的一位好友,我写了一行字过去:其实我每天都在线,不过隐身而已. 很快,QQ上一个灰色的头像就动了起来,原来我这个朋友也在隐身,他说:“其实也没有什么事.”然后他的头像继续灰色,我们谁也没有继续聊天,就这样归于沉默。
刚拥有QQ的时候,我天天坐电脑前,第一件事就是先上QQ,然后让那只(企鹅头像)挂在电脑右上角.很快,好友名单中的头像就次第亮了起来,唧唧地叫个不停.但那已经是很久前的事情了,那时候,所谓的上网,其实就是QQ聊天,不管是熟悉的朋友,还是陌生人,都在闲聊些有用无用的废话
现在我每天都挂QQ,里面好友几十个,除几个好朋友之外,其他都是踩空间好友,不过大多数情况下头像都是灰色的.偶尔,我随便写几个字过去,那边顷刻就有回音,原来,几乎每个人都在线,却都不约而同地选择了隐身.
我曾经问过一个朋友为什么一直隐身,朋友淡淡地回了一句:“无话可说.”是啊,说什么呢?大家都已经上网久了,已经不会像刚刚时那样活性喜欢显摆,喜欢抱怨,岁月就像茧子,将心灵厚厚包裹.我们已经习惯不轻易向别人敞开心扉,不管是快乐,还是郁闷.即使在QQ上偶尔寒暄,可是寒暄过后更沉默!
还有一个原因,你一旦上线,那些亮着头像的你的朋友,你不去问候一声吗?QQ毕竟不像手机和电话,有了来电再去接,你明明看见朋友和同事在线,你能不寒暄一下吗?就好像我们走在街上打个照面会问一声“吃了吗”一样.其实我们很忙,或许你的寒暄会让朋友感觉你正无聊,你正寂寞,你需要找人聊天,找人安慰.那边的信息会一条条跳出来, 让你疲于应付,或许,那边的朋友和你一样也是在疲于应付.所以,干脆隐身吧,那会让我们少了很多道义上的负担!
隐身的人越来越多,不管你拥有几个QQ,许多人统统选择了隐身.很多时候QQ已经变成了一种可有可无的工具,我们并不指望能从中得到什么,不管谁的名片上,QQ号都是可怜地呆在最下角. 但是,没有人会抛弃QQ,很多人上班的第一件事,就是将QQ挂上,我们的好友名单常常灰暗一片,却很少有人将他们删掉!
也许,我们在乎的只是一种感觉,一种在偌大的城市里依然有自己熟悉的人的感觉,呆在QQ上,我们就似乎还呆在一种温暖和熟悉的群体里.虽然彼此都隐身,但都在关注着对方,当你有所需求,登录的上线提示就会从右下角一直顶到屏幕的顶端,在钢筋水泥的城市,在灰暗的QQ头像后面,依然隐藏着可以释怀的温暖和信任.
2011年5月20日
  
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