从事相来说,净土是佛用来教化众生之地。为众生建立更好的教学条件,从国土的性质和状态上进行改造,就是庄严净土的意义了。 从事相上,《无量寿经》中,阿弥陀佛的经验可以参考。 法藏比丘说此颂已。而白佛言。唯然世尊。我发无上正觉之心。愿佛为我广宣经法。我当修行摄取佛国清净庄严无量妙土。令我于世速成正觉。拔诸生死勤苦之本。佛语阿难。时世自在王佛。告法藏比丘。如所修行庄严佛土。汝自当知。比丘白佛。斯义弘深非我境界。唯愿世尊广为敷演诸佛如来净土之行。我闻此已。当如说修行成满所愿。尔时世自在王佛。知其高明志愿深广。即为法藏比丘而说经言。譬如大海。一人斗量经历劫数。尚可穷底得其妙宝。人有至心精进求道不止会当克果。何愿不得 于是世自在王佛。即为广说二百一十亿诸佛刹土天人之善恶国土之粗妙。应其心愿悉现与之。时彼比丘闻佛所说严净国土。皆悉睹见超发无上殊胜之愿。其心寂静志无所著。一切世间无能及者。具足五劫。思惟摄取庄严佛国清净之行。阿难白佛。彼佛国土寿量几何。佛言。其佛寿命四十二劫。时法藏比丘。摄取二百一十亿诸佛妙土清净之行。如是修已诣彼佛所。稽首礼足绕佛三匝合掌而住。白言世尊。我已摄取庄严佛土清净之行。佛告比丘。汝今可说宜知是时。发起悦可一切大众。菩萨闻已修行此法。缘致满足无量大愿。比丘白佛。唯垂听察。如我所愿当具说之。 ...... 这里法藏比丘就开始说他的四十八大愿。之后, 法藏比丘于彼佛所。诸天魔梵龙神八部大众之中。发斯弘誓建此愿已。一向专志庄严妙土。所修佛国开廓广大超胜独妙。建立常然无衰无变。于不可思议兆载永劫。积殖菩萨无量德行。不生欲觉嗔觉害觉。不起欲想嗔想害想。不著色声香味触之法。忍力成就不计众苦。少欲知足无染恚痴。三昧常寂智慧无碍。无有虚伪谄曲之心和颜软语先意承问。勇猛精进志愿无惓。专求清白之法。以慧利群生。恭敬三宝奉事师长。以大庄严具足众行。令诸众生功德成就。住空无相无愿之法。无作无起观法如化。远离粗言自害害彼彼此俱害。修习善语自利利人彼我兼利。弃国捐王绝去财色。自行六波罗蜜。教人令行。无央数劫积功累德。随其生处在意所欲。无量宝藏自然发应。教化安立无数众生。住于无上正真之道。或为长者居士豪姓尊贵。或为刹利国君转轮圣帝。或为六欲天主乃至梵王。常以四事供养恭敬一切诸佛。如是功德不可称说。口气香洁如优钵罗华。身诸毛孔出栴檀香。其香普熏无量世界。容色端正相好殊妙。其手常出无尽之宝。衣服饮食珍妙华香。诸盖幢幡庄严之具。如是等事超诸人天。于一切法而得自在。
若从心地来说,《维摩诘经》此段世尊回答“长者子宝积”的教言甚为经典。
尔时,长者子宝积说此偈已,白佛言:“世尊!是五百长者子,皆已发阿耨多罗三藐三菩提心,愿闻得佛国土清净,唯愿世尊说诸菩萨净土之行。”佛言:“善哉!宝积!乃能为诸菩萨,问于如来净土之行,谛听!谛听!善思念之!当为汝说。”于是宝积及五百长者子,受教而听。
佛言:“宝积!众生之类是菩萨佛土。所以者何?菩萨随所化众生而取佛土,随所调伏众生而取佛土,随诸众生应以何国入佛智慧而取佛土,随诸众生应以何国起菩萨根而取佛土。所以者何?菩萨取于净国,皆为饶益诸众生故。譬如有人,欲于空地,造立宫室,随意无碍,若于虚空,终不能成!菩萨如是,为成就众生故,愿取佛国,愿取佛国者,非于空也。”
“宝积当知,直心是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,不谄众生来生其国;深心是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,具足功德众生来生其国;大乘心是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,大乘众生来生其国;布施是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,一切能舍众生来生其国;持戒是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,行十善道满愿众生来生其国;忍辱是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,三十二相庄严众生来生其国;精进是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,勤修一切功德众生来生其国;禅定是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,摄心不乱众生来生其国;智慧是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,正定众生来生其国;四无量心是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,成就慈悲喜舍众生来生其国;四摄法是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,解脱所摄众生来生其国;方便是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,于一切法方便无碍众生来生其国;三十七道品是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,念处正勤神足根力觉道众生来生其国;回向心是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,得一切具足功德国土;说除八难是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,国土无有三恶八难;自守戒行不讥彼阙是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,国土无有犯禁之名;十善是菩萨净土,菩萨成佛时,命不中夭,大富梵行,所言诚谛;常以软语,眷属不离,善和诤讼。言必饶益,不嫉不恚,正见众生来生其国。如是宝积,菩萨随其直心,则能发行;随其发行,则得深心;随其深心,则意调伏;随意调伏,则如说行;随如说行,则能回向;随其回向,则有方便;随其方便,则成就众生;随成就众生,则佛土净;随佛土净,则说法净;随说法净,则智慧净;随智慧净,则其心净;随其心净,则一切功德净。是故宝积,若菩萨欲得净土,当净其心;随其心净,则佛土净。” 愿以此功德 庄严佛净土 上报四重恩 下济三途苦 若有见闻者 悉发菩提心 尽此一报身 同生极乐国.
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永州乡野(禁言53天)
[M][B][ft=#c78ae6,5,宋体]每一次回访,都留下快乐痕迹,[/ft][/B][/M] [M][B][ft=#c78ae6,5,宋体]每一次留言,都是友谊的传递,[/ft][/B][/M] [M][B][ft=#c78ae6,5,宋体]每一次思念,都是幸福的回忆,[/ft][/B][/M] [M][B][ft=#c78ae6,5,宋体]每一次祝福,都是内心的真诚。[/ft][/B][/M] [M][url=http://b63.photo.store.qq.com/http_imgload.cgi?/rurl4_b=f27ac4f13ae263b836ffd0782b2eeaf6fd280d0fc9a88690503a5e1d2aefb0863ae30ed4365f7843334ae968e8454002bd3607efec68f9b02fe8f5731542b4b7b03dcb34cb8ef9877dfba6eff14f11abb9b296f6&a=60&b=63][img,398,287]http://b63.photo.store.qq.com/http_imgload.cgi?/rurl4_b=f27ac4f13ae263b836ffd0782b2eeaf6fd280d0fc9a88690503a5e1d2aefb0863ae30ed4365f7843334ae968e8454002bd3607efec68f9b02fe8f5731542b4b7b03dcb34cb8ef9877dfba6eff14f11abb9b296f6&a=60&b=63[/img][/url][/M]
永州乡野(禁言53天)
[M][B][ft=#cc33ff,5,宋体]带着一颗真诚的心 迈着轻盈的脚步[/ft][/B][/M] [M][B][ft=#cc33ff,5,宋体]轻轻迈进你的博园 送上真心的问候[/ft][/B][/M] [M][B][ft=#cc33ff,5,宋体]给你留下美好祝福 开心快乐到永远[/ft][/B][/M] [M][url=http://b61.photo.store.qq.com/http_imgload.cgi?/rurl4_b=5a1cde69f252332c910338fa76131305650b4cfaa203044b75c2dad71f1f6548306a0e0b8e77e02275f315196a40895ffb66509e4fc6c8a7b8ad3779c52d4cbf74cb98b93be5f8df9d67e3b6b48cbe94932ac76c&a=66&b=61][img,395,175]http://b61.photo.store.qq.com/http_imgload.cgi?/rurl4_b=5a1cde69f252332c910338fa76131305650b4cfaa203044b75c2dad71f1f6548306a0e0b8e77e02275f315196a40895ffb66509e4fc6c8a7b8ad3779c52d4cbf74cb98b93be5f8df9d67e3b6b48cbe94932ac76c&a=66&b=61[/img][/url][/M] [M] [/M]
渺
[ft=,2,]请问您真的是75岁吗?男无阿弥陀佛[/ft]
at ease
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温存°d3sTiny-
[url=http://b99.photo.store.qq.com/psb?/V11lNVqc400bHL/Sk5RmkfEjAGSCxZaNqnVx1oFs.7Xx7hu5U*IYn71F9Q!/b/Yfe*AztoWgAAYvhGBTtXHwAA][img,500,667]http://b99.photo.store.qq.com/psb?/V11lNVqc400bHL/Sk5RmkfEjAGSCxZaNqnVx1oFs.7Xx7hu5U*IYn71F9Q!/b/Yfe*AztoWgAAYvhGBTtXHwAA&ek=1&kp=1&pt=0&su=0159826945&sce=0-12-12&rf=2-9[/img][/url]本人黄海强,今年27岁,农历6月24日寅时生,广东省普宁市西社西湖村人,俺属虎的,属虎的你是没本事把我怎样的,我要结婚了,谢谢大师哦,断不了我的姻缘,我还能结婚,哈哈 ,你不去死,到处骗钱骗人,死和尚,去当和尚你·最合适,不会做法术就不要装神弄鬼,草你妈,全家死光光,哥最讨厌你们这些垃圾,还和尚,合适还可以找鸡婆呢,哈哈,不要来骗人了,滚回你妈的B里去,要是灵的话,哥怎么还可以结婚,草,断不了,断你妈的B,你不去死,骗钱,装神弄鬼,改你妈的B,怎么不敢回我,有本事就把我姻缘断了,我马上去你们那做和尚,如果断不了你们就滚,有种来找