喧嚣中，独守一片平淡-----写在生日之际

平淡日志


   在喧嚣中，独守一片平淡，在繁华中，坚持一份简单，不为眼前功名利禄而劳神，不惊荣辱，宁静从容，我们就会活的轻松，活的充盈，活的有滋有味。人生本是一次时光的旅程，只有月白风清的淡定，才有了人淡如菊的从容。心小了，所有的小事就大了；心大了，所有的大事都小了。大事难事，看担当；逆境顺境，看胸襟；是喜是怒，看涵养；有舍有得，看智慧；是成是败，看坚持。凡事顺其自然；遇事处之泰然；得意之时淡然；失意之时坦然；艰辛曲折必然；历尽沧桑悟然。
   饮清净之茶，闭是非之口，结悟道之友。 行走于尘世，我们需求的其实不多，最重要的，莫过于一颗安宁的心。心安则神定，可于大厦将倾而不乱，狂澜即至而无惧；神定则慧生，迷象丛生能觅出路，危难时候善寻妙招；慧生则彻悟，原来幸福不过是一种理解，快乐不过是一种心态；彻悟则有得，那些看开的、看淡的、看透的、看破的，皆是人生大收获。没有谁，地球一样的转，离开谁，该活着的一样活着，天还是那样的蓝，并没有因为谁的离去而变得一片灰暗，也不会因为谁的存在而增加多少光辉。所以，我们要经常地告诫自己，就算没有了全世界，我们还有我们的自由。我们的幸福我们自己作主，别人能奈我何？过好自己的生活，才是真正对得起这一回人生。 你的心灵必须要有一份淡然。宠辱不惊，看庭前花开花落；去留无意，往空中云卷云舒。风来疏竹，风过而竹不留声；雁渡寒潭，雁去而潭不存影。故君子事来而心始现，事去而心随空。唯有看淡所有，才能让你心灵安静下来，才能细细品味人生的万千滋味。生命的过程如黄河水，其中只有四分之一是泥沙，四分之三是幸福和快乐。摇晃一下，生命中充满浑浊，但把心静下来以后，泥沙沉淀下来，才能发现你生命中的四分之三是幸福和快乐。
   人世间纷纷扰扰，彼此互相原谅与担待，演绎着这世界所有的恩怨情仇，看红尘沧海桑田，一时一事，本无定数。面对着一切，过去了就放下，无需纠缠，从容淡定，犹如云聚云散。每一天，每一刻，都是结束，也都是开始。
   虽然身处纷繁，但每个人的内心都渴望有一片宁静之地。真正的平静，不是避开车马喧嚣，而是在心中修篱种菊。学会接受、面对，更要懂得放下。人生就是走在修行路上，修行需要修心。把心安住下来，不被各种妄象所搅扰牵扯。慢慢便会发现；那片宁静，那片清澈，无须远寻，就在你的心里。
   心静了，才能听见自己的内心。也许，你正狂热追求的，并非你真正想要的，只是迁就了别人或者社会；也许，你正为之苦恼，肝肠寸断的，未必是你真正想爱或者该爱的，只是一时的不甘心。坐下来，静赏花开，静观水流，心静了，自然就看清了。笑看花开，是一种宁静的喜悦；静赏花落，是一份随缘的自在。
   心中无尘心自安。烦恼由心而生。同一桩事，计较得少则少忧，计较得多则多忧；同一个问题，看到光明的一面则喜，看到灰暗的一面则忧。人生的苦乐，不在于碰到多少事情，而在于心里装着多少事情。清空心里的阴霾，心净才能心静，心静才能自在自安。每个人都是一个小世界，而善心就是原始的味道。“钉子精神”是一种大无畏境界，更是一种智慧。明白了这点，你会成为大爱的人；明白了这点，你就会助人为乐；明白了这点，你就不必在意一瞬之间的得失；明白了这点，你才能从容处理一切！
   穷人问智者：我为什么这么穷？智者说：因为你没有学会给予。穷人疑惑的问，我什么都没有，如何给予？智者回答说：一个人即使没有钱，也可以给予人五样东西。一、颜施，用微笑待接人待物。二、言施，多说鼓励赞美的话。三、心施，敞开心扉诚恳待人。四、眼施，以善意的眼神抚慰他人。五、身施，用实际行动帮助他人。忍，不是懦弱，不是无用：忍，是一种力量，是一种慈悲，是一种智慧，更是一种艺术。“忍”之一字，是接受，是担当，是负责，是处理，是化解，是承担。正如孟子说：“天将降大任于斯人也，必先苦其心志，劳其筋骨，饿其体肤，空乏其身，行拂乱其所为，所以动心忍性，增益其所不能。”这就是忍的大勇大力。
   一生中重要的六个字：藏，藏锋藏巧，胜者总是笑到最后；防，强者都是“漏洞”最少的人；稳，稳扎稳打，不走弯路便是捷径；变，变则通，通则久，求变就是赢；牵，暗中牵制胜过明面的强制；退，胜败无常，给自己留后路就是留希望。愿朋友们进退自如。祝自己和朋友们开心快乐!
  
   今年七月三十日--农历六月二十三是母亲和我的生日，祝母亲福如东海！祝自己心想事成！
                
 

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平淡

在这个光怪陆离的世界，没有谁可以将日子过得行云流水。但我始终相信，走过平湖烟雨，岁月山河，那些历尽劫数，尝遍百味的人，会更加生动而干净。时间永远是旁观者，所有的过程和结果，都需要我们自己承担。不知不觉，生命的年轮又在时空中划过了一年，换言之，是又向生命的终点迈进了一步。回首生命的这么多年，才发现时光飞逝，岁月的沧桑已经过早地印刻在我的脸上。总以为自己有的是时间，有的是青春，只要我想做什么事情，一切都还来的及，却忘了时间不是静止的，它总是趁我不注意的时候悄悄溜走，等我回过神来才发现一年就这样过去了。[em]e168[/em] [em]e160[/em] [em]e157[/em] [em]e124[/em]

天蓝蓝

如果人生还能重来，我愿--------

天蓝蓝

学会接受，学会忍耐，学会看淡，学会生活--------

晓露荷枫

The hustle and bustle, alone in a dull, wrote on the birthday

晓露荷枫

In the hustle and bustle, alone in a plain, in the bustling, adhere to a simple, not for immediate high official positions and riches and bother, and not Jing, quiet, we will live easily, live filling, live youziyouwei. Life is a journey of time, only the beautiful night is calm, only a slight as chrysanthemum easy. The heart is small, all things bigbig heart, all events are small. Event difficult, to see the playgood times of adversity, see the mindjoy and anger, see conservationof give and take, see wisdomis to be defeated, adherence. Everything in naturethey take things calmlyproud when indifferentfrustrated when the calmarduous and tortuous must have gone through vicissitudes Wu ran.

晓露荷枫

Clean drinking the tea, closing an opening, node to friends. Walking on the earth, in fact, we don't have much demand, the most important, than the peace of mind. Peace of mind is God, in the great mansion on the point of collapse and not random, the tide to without fearGod rule Huisheng, fans like clumps can find way out, danger when good find coupHuisheng is understood, happiness is but a kind of understanding, joy is but a state of mindit is understood, those open, bearish, see, see, is a big harvest of life. No, the earth turn, left the who, the alive alive, the day is so blue, and not because who leave and become a gray, not because of who have increased the number of glory. Therefore, we must constantly remind ourselves, if not the whole world, we have our freedom. Our happiness we are their own, others can endure what I? Live your life, is really worthy of this back to life. Your mind must have an indifferent. Unmoved either by gain or loss, see pretrial blossomfate has no intention, to the sky yunjuanyunshu. Sparse bamboo wind, wind and bamboo no soundYanduhantan, wild geese and pool does not exist. A gentleman's heart is beginning, things to heart with empty. Only the bearish all, can let your heart quiet down, to savor the taste of life. The process of life such as the Yellow River water, of which only 1/4 are three fourths of sediment, happiness and joy. Shake, life is full of haze, but calm yourself, sediment settling down, can be found in your life is three fourths of happiness and joy.

晓露荷枫

The confused, mutual forgiveness and tolerance, the interpretation of all the hatred of the world, look at the Red Sea, the moment, the indefinite. In the face of all, passed down, without entanglement, calm, like a cloud cloud. Every day, every moment, all is over, are also beginning.

晓露荷枫

Despite the numerous and complicated, but in every human being's heart the desire to have a peaceful piece of. Real peace, not to avoid the noise of chariots and horsemen, but to repair the fence for Chrysanthemum in the heart. Learn to accept, face down, to know more. Life is going on the way of practice, practice need to repair heart. The peace of mind to live, not to be disturbed by all kinds of false image. Slowly you will findthat peace, that piece of clear, without much searching, in your heart.

晓露荷枫

The calm, to hear your heart. Maybe, you are fanatical pursuit, not what you really want, just to others or societyperhaps, upset, you are the heart, is not you really love or the love, just a moment can not be reconciled. Sit down, enjoy the flowers, see water, calm the mind, nature will see. Laugh to see flowers, is a quiet joystatic flowers fall, is a revel of freedom.

晓露荷枫

Hearts clean from the safety center. Trouble is born by the heart. The same thing, the less care less worry, care much more aboutthe same question, look on the bright side of customers, see the dark side. The ups and downs of life, is not met so many things, but in the heart have many things. Empty heart haze, the heart to calm the mind, calm the mind to be free from anxiety. Everyone is a small world, and is the original taste. "Spirit" is a kind of dauntless realm, but also a kind of wisdom. Understand this, you will be lovedunderstand this, you will find in helping othersunderstand this, you don't have to care about the moment between gains and lossesunderstand this, you can calmly deal with everything!

晓露荷枫

Asked the poor man: I why so poor? The wise man said: because you don't have to learn how to give. Poor people wondered, I have nothing, how to give? The wise man said: even if a person does not have the money, can also give us five things. A, Yan Shi, to treat people with a smile. Two, words, say more praise to encourage. Three, heart, open your heart and sincere. Four, eye, in good faith to comfort others. Five, the body, with the practical action to help others. But, not weak, not useless: can, is a force, is a kind of mercy, is a kind of wisdom, is also a kind of art. "Could" word, is to accept, accept, is responsible for processing, is, is to resolve, is take. As Mencius said: "days will be down to the great man also, must suffer, the labor of their bones, their body skin hunger, depletion of their body, brushed it for, so the spirit, not gain it." This is the courage to endure.

晓露荷枫

Six important words in life: to hide, hide Feng Qiao hidden, the winner is always the last laughand, the strong are "loopholes" at least peoplestability, stand firmly and fight steadily, not detours is a shortcutvariable, it will pass, long - general, change is to windistraction, secretly contain more than mingmian mandatory the retreat, victory or defeatimpermanence, give yourself liuhoulu is leave hope. May friends jintuiziru. I wish my friends happy and!

晓露荷枫

In July 30th this year, the lunar calendar in June twenty-three is my mother and my birthday, I wish mother happiness as immense as the eastern sea! I wish you all wishes come true!

&紫凌儿*

放下所有的繁杂。心平气和的时候才能感悟到那份平淡是我们愿望的幸福。。。