心的距离雪儿日志

心的距离

雪儿日志

与人的心到底有多远？也许近在咫尺，也许远在天涯。人不怕孤独，因为孤独是可以忍受的，可心孤独了，人是忍受不了的。所以人们总是期盼着人与人用心的交流，得到心与心的共鸣。

直以为人与人的心很容易接近，关爱与理解就把一颗遥远的心拉的很近。朋友不在于多，而在于精，知己不在于天天相见，但却心心相映。可一但发觉你一直以为的朋友、知己，其实也未必懂你，人就忽然间感觉心很孤独，心孤独了，没了依靠，那种难耐是说不出的滋味……

我欣赏有修养的人，因为感觉那样的人心很开阔，有大海一样的襟怀，大肚能容天下难容之事。无论是做事还是做人，无论是讲话还是思考，都给人以理性的亲和。所以有修养的人很容易把心与你靠的很近。

　喜欢与受过高等教育的人交流与交往，因为我觉得受过高等教育的人一定有好的修养，但后来我发现，受过高等教育也未必就有好的修养，未必会做人，也未必会用心生活，不懂修炼心志，只求其技能发展与求知。有好修养的人一定是受过好的教育的人，懂得用心体会人生中的一切，悟理、悟性、悟生、悟死……

心如水，有的人心如河，涓涓溪流寻找汇集的方向，有的人心如湖，守住一潭，即不流畅，也不寻找汇集的方向，有的人心如江，由无数条支干的河水汇集而成，滚滚向前，越集越多，汹涌着奔向大海，有的人心如海，容纳来自各方的水，形成浩瀚的海。一条小溪无法直接寻觅到大海，大江大海也无法涌入小溪。

　道：话不投机半句多。人的身体得了病可以医治，人的心得了病就难以医治，所以说身体的健康是必须的，人心理的健康更是需要重视的。有心事要解开，有烦恼要消除，不求人人理解，但求有人理解，不求人人关爱，但求有人关爱，把心打开，让懂你的人更懂你，不懂你的人，随他去吧，人心毕竟不是一样的容量。

曾为找不到知己而苦恼，我曾因无人理解而伤感，我体会了心的孤独的那份难耐，我知道了心中的水量在膨胀，需要寻找海的容纳，寻觅的过程很艰难，因为海是不会向你招手，而需要你去寻觅。人心如海，让自己的心快乐起来，心的快乐带来更多的收获，事业、家庭、爱情、友情……

快乐起来，是每个人的期盼。也许我的心离你很近，因为有理解与关爱。也许我的心离你很遥远，因为我不懂你，你不懂我。

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