低調女子低調愛
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她跟随他的14年光阴，是她最美好的季节。他上了台，她谢了幕。她始终低调的人生令很多世人不知道她曾经来过，不知道她曾经如火如荼地与他恋过一场。
世人很少提她的名，他们提起她的男人.她的至爱，那是一个灼灼生辉的名字。男人的朋友曾题诗咏她---“望门投宿宅能之，亡命何曾见细而，只有香菱贤国妪，能飘白发说微时。”
她跟随她生命中的男人辗转十余年，她患了肺结核，担心会传染给他，于是她选择默默地离开了男人。这一离别让两人的关系再也没有世俗地亲密过，男人登上中华民国第一任大总统，世人猜测她的隐退。她道：“我跟中山反清，建立中华民国，我救国救民的愿望已经达到。我自知出身贫苦，知识有限，自愿分离，并非中山弃我，他待我不薄也不负我。”她的躬身谢幕是生命里低缓而有力的留白，她已经过了他的人生。
她一直做孙中山身后的无名份的女人。原名香菱，又叫瑞芬，排行第四，人称“陈四姑”。名分和富贵在她眼里如过眼繁华，在男人第二次婚礼隆重上演时，她静静地说：“中山娶了宋夫人后有了贤内助，诸事顺利了，应当为他们祝福。”
他是伟人，她只是平凡女子，他需要被人仰望，于是，她选择被人遗忘。1960年瑟瑟秋风中，她的生命安静的划了一个句号。这个在南洋的岁月被当地侨界人士称为“孙夫人“淡泊、宽容的女子葬于香港荃湾华人永远坟场，享年87岁。
人生需要记取与遗忘一样多，她与他曾经一起走过的日子，仿佛黑暗的天幕抖落一地的碎钻，镶嵌于她荣枯的岁月，一世珍藏。他告别人世后，她是他不经意散落人世的遗物，她低调的人生令很多世人不知道她曾经来过，不知道她曾经如火如荼地与他恋过一场。
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