╭※╯真正的人气来自心灵的感应╭※╯个人日记

╭※╯真正的人气来自心灵的感应╭※╯

个人日记

有的朋友离开网络，说是玩空间太累；是的，玩空间会遇到爱；爱了就会痛，痛了还去爱；放弃了却牵挂，再放弃再牵挂，如此循环，才会感觉疲惫不堪。不论是隐身，拒聊还是离开，都是在被动的回避感情，可心底的萌动是不会以人的意志为转移的；茫茫网海，随着时间的推移，情感波动会不期而至，总有那么一个人会让你期盼，总有一个角落会让你时刻想起。于是压抑和逃离就成了人们的最终选择。

网络只是媒介，无论是喜是悲，网络都在静静地履行着它的职责，感情的变化完全取决网络两端彼此心态的变化，心态淡定回避，不奢求就可以轻松畅游于网络，如果执意把网络情感移植到现实中来，必然就会水土不服，也是要受到太多限制的，当你在网络和现实之间来回挣扎时，累就会如约而至，这就是心累，即使回到了现实，阴影也会一直伴随，离开只是逃避，不是解脱。

同事物有着不同的生存环境，如同温室里的作物不能移植到室外；适应了风吹日晒，同样不能生长于室内一样，既然恋情是在网络中产生，那就在网络中享受，在网络中愉悦。不要离开网络这片沃土，离开了，就会痛苦，感情之花就会枯萎。每天打开电脑，在相互问候声中，感受友情的温馨；在相互思念之中感受真情的温暖，这难道不是惬意和幸福吗？特殊的环境的相遇也只能如此，也不必一定非要陪伴在身边。

累的另一原因就是人气，人气是指访问空间的人次数量，数量越多，人气就越旺。仔细观察，喊累的朋友都是空间人气很旺的主人，不过，也要清楚的看到，很多人气是靠空间互动而获得的.这种人气来得快，去得也快，是一种表面的浮华，为了维持这种虚高，主人不得不用全部休息时间来参与互动，有时还要加班加点，长此下去，不仅会累，还会望网生畏，产生厌倦情绪。真正的人气来自心灵的感应，无需语言，彼此就有朋友的感觉，这种感觉也许来自空间的美丽，也许来自主人的魅力，也许还来自莫名的丝丝情怀，这种感觉的人多了，人气就旺，而这种人气才是真正的人气，不会因为不回访，不回复，而停止去你空间的脚步。

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