★═╬═★慢慢懂得,有些爱只能留在心里珍惜★═╬═★

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    心里慢慢懂得,有一些爱,原本不是要成为生命中一份沉重的负荷。所以;心里一直很安静地想着,想念一个人,有时是问候,有时是沉默。沉默,不是因为无话可说,而是心中想说的太多太多……曾经以为,只有面对面地交谈才能算是爱的倾听,却没想到,其实体会沉默也是一种倾听。生命中最难的阶段不是没有人懂你,而是你不懂你自己。 
 




     心里明白,日久生情,才是真的缘份。喜欢你的人,要你的现在。爱你的人,要你的未来。真正的爱情,不是一见钟情,而是日久生情;真正的缘份,不是上天的安排,而是你的主动;真正的关心,不是你认为好的就要求她改变,而是她的改变你是第一个发现的;真正的矛盾,不是她不理解你,而是你不会宽容她。 





    爱是一种奇怪的东西,忽闪忽灭间的深刻,成长在彼此心里。最美丽的故事没有结局,最浪漫的感情没有归宿,最幸福的爱情没有言语,最深刻的喜欢没有空间!爱情总是想象比现实美丽,相逢如是,告别亦如是。我们以为爱得很深、很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅、很浅。最深最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。 

 



    心里慢慢明白,有些人,认识便好,不适合相伴左右,那是海市蜃楼,不是细水长流。有些风景,有幸遇见,不求长伴左右,只要一眼,也是长相守。不要以灵魂知己的名义,去等不该等的人,去蹉跎不该蹉跎的青春。这个世界上,有些人,有些事,不属于爱情,不爱,就不要依赖!不是一辈子的人,不说一辈子的话,无需勉强,学会放下。 

 



    心里慢慢懂得,爱,最需要的是舒坦。如果感觉自由、舒服、安心,你就爱对了;如果感觉处处被掣肘、受控制、没了自我,就该考虑调整了。爱,那就是互相依靠,相互温暖,相伴鼓励一起走向那个未知的未来。不要因为努力的变成别人喜欢的样子,却到头来连自己都忘了真实的自己。 

 



    心里知道,有些人,不爱,就不要产生依赖,否则就会放不开。有些爱和事,唯有当距离渐远的时候,才能回首看清它。人生的旅途中,你总有那么一段时间,需要自己走,需要自己扛。不要感觉害怕,不要感觉孤单,这只不过是成长支付的代价。幸福是一种感觉,没用的东西,再便宜也不要买;不爱的人,再寂寞也不要依赖。 

 


 
 
 
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