不是网络惹的祸，而是网聊别太过
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不是网络惹的祸，
而是网聊别太过
上网的每个人心中都有自己描绘的一幅美好幸福生活的宏伟蓝图；因为梦想要从这里开始，网聊与现实生活中毕竟和自己追求的、希望或多或少都有一定的差距。工作的压力、生活中的烦恼琐事随时围侥着人们，这一切使我们过得很压抑，心里的休闲始终得不到放松，想找一个倾诉、发泄的地方或者对象。网络给我们提供了这个交流平台，也让我们品尝到了精神食粮的营养。
上网聊天已成了许多人的倾诉方式，通过qq空间传播、看日志文章，让一些人从有缘之人相识到相知，又从相知到相惜。找到了现实生活中得不到的感觉，使更多人相见恨晚、不求天长地久、只求曾经拥有。
许多人都承认，网络给我们带来了便利，又给我们一个抒发情感的空间，对妻子、或丈夫、亲人朋友等不便说的话，在这里我们可以大胆一吐为快。找到了‘知己’，还可以相互安慰、勉励、这何乐而不为呢。
网聊时，发图片，听音乐，我们可以忘却所有的不快，感到的只是开心和瑕意。这对我们的身心健康都是有益的，开阔了视野，增进了知识，取长补短，互相学习。为什么有的人反对网聊，认为常在河边走，没有不湿鞋。更认为的还有，网聊早早晚晚聊出事。虚拟的网络和现实中的生活是格格不入的，那就看人们怎么去认真正确对待，具有一颗平常心和责任感、有道德、有水准的人应该能把握好这个度的。
所以我的观点是提倡文明网聊、健康网聊、但决不能影响家庭和你自己的正常生活。现在，有许多人的家庭因网聊而破裂，我认为这不能怪罪于网络，不是网络惹的祸，惹祸的是你们怎么聊，怎么去做，这是关键-----。
千百年来，人类情欲与理性的冲突构成了人性痛苦的根源。网络交流在打破时空局限，直抵心灵的同时，也为这种情欲提供了更便利的条件。发生婚外情的真正根源不是网络，而是自己枯燥乏味的婚姻，需要有激情的生活来对抗婚姻的平淡。因网聊而家庭破裂者只不过是为自己的婚外情找些开脱理由罢了，所以说不是网络惹的祸，而是网聊别太过。
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