琉 璃

人生感悟

曾遇到过一对银婚的老夫妻,在路途中我们说到了爱情。那个满头银发的妻子说,最好的爱情一定是琉璃。琉璃?为什么会是琉璃?那么清澈透明的东西怎么会是爱情?甚至不染尘埃?女人说,我们开始的想法是和你一样的,爱情那么复杂,怎么会是这么纯粹的东西呢,可是随着年龄的增长,我们越来越觉得,爱情就应该是这么纯粹的东西,不夹杂着任何的条件和功利。

 

我问,难道你们的一生都这样相爱吗?甚至没有吵过架?他们笑着摇了摇头。男人说,怎么会呢?年轻的时候经常吵架,她总抱怨我不如别的男人,或者说我不够爱她,最厉害的时候就差点去离婚了,可是后来,我们慢慢地适应了对方,过了这么多年。婚姻都是这样,要经过一定的磨合过程,到最后达到你中有我我中有你的地步才是婚姻中的上品,在这个过程中,如果能把那些婚姻中的天敌抛弃掉,比如猜忌,比如嫉妒,比如虚荣……,让自己的婚姻越来越纯粹,那么爱情一定会简单到只是爱情。说完他深情地看了老伴一眼。

 

女人接着说,这时,再看你们的爱情,一定似琉璃了。因为干净到不染尘埃,只是单纯地相爱,世尘中的物欲和利欲在你们面前几乎没有作用,所以,到你老了以后,如果还能和自己的爱人在一起,如果想给爱情一个比喻,那只能是琉璃。

 

一日,翻看佛书,忽然看到一句话:愿我来生得菩提时,心似琉璃。慢慢地盯住那句话,眼泪就流了下来。原来,爱也一样,充满了佛性,只有认真地修,才会成为琉璃。

 

 

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