杯子与咖啡

智慧人生

请不要抱怨生活,安静下来。

听听这个杯子与咖啡的故事吧——

 

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一群事业有成的校友在年事已高的大学老师家聚会。很快,谈话就开始转向对工作和生活压力的抱怨。

老师从厨房给客人们端来一大壶咖啡,还有各式各样的杯子:陶瓷的、塑料的、玻璃的,其中一些外表普通,另外一些昂贵精致。他让学生们自己端热咖啡喝。

    

当所有学生手里都拿有一杯咖啡的时候,老师开口了:“你们留心一下,所有漂亮昂贵的杯子都被端走了,剩下的杯子是普通又便宜的。这很正常,你们都想为自己争取最好的,这也是你们所有问题和压力的来源。你们真正需要的是咖啡,而不是杯子,但你们却都自觉地去端比较好的杯子,而且还密切注视着彼此的杯子。”

 

"现在,如果把生活比作咖啡,那么工作、金钱和社会地位就是杯子。它们只是盛载生活的工具,而生活的质量并不随之改变。有时,我们只把注意力放在杯子上,反而不能去享用里面的咖啡。"

 所以,不要为杯子所牵绊,而要学会享用里面盛的咖啡。

                                      

                         ——现在是不是品味到了

                             多一点的甜味和醇香呢

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