(随笔) 情人节 话情爱

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                            (随笔)     情人节 话情爱

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      情爱是一个古老的话题,不同的时代,不同的阶层,不同的人生阶段,不同的生活环境等许多的因素,对情爱的感悟和需求是不同.阿法拉.贝恩就曾说过;"一个小时轰轰烈烈的爱情,胜过一世纪沉闷无聊的生活."而平平淡淡才是真.也是很流行的一种情爱观.那种观点是对是错,永远也争议不清.这只是每个人的偏爱不同而异.正如萝卜青菜各有所爱,同一个道理.

       情爱在科技高度发达的今天.可通过不同的平台.不同的渠道而获得.但它有一个基本的事实;就是互相需要和合适.这种合适和需要,只要不以交易为条件,不以金钱为目的,就无可厚非.

       情爱在开放,进步的当今现实社会生活中,有不同的形式.但它有一个基本的特点;不是单纯的获取,而是相互的奉献.这种获取和奉献,只要不破坏他/她人的利益和幸福,就能得到社会的默认.

       情爱不要靠他/她人的恩赐,更不能向他/她人勒索.是建立在互慕,坦诚,成熟的基石上,靠内心的强大和心心相印而获得.

       闪电照耀一瞬间,而爱情却照耀一生.艾德恩.罗宾森有一句很经典的名言;"若不是为了爱,贫乏的生命只是一条不值得启航的船只."爱情就是为了生活更充实,快乐,幸福,使人生更丰富多彩.

       当然,爱情也不只是春天的花朵,夏夜的明月,也会有秋天的泥泞,冬天的冰雪.只有用纯洁的品德作桥梁,以透明的真诚为纽带连结起来的爱情,才是真正的爱情.

       爱情是要用心来经营,只有用理解,包容,珍惜来培育,爱情之花是不会枯萎.

       生活中没有了爱,就象没有清晨的漫漫长夜;只能在孤独与寂寞中,渡过无聊的日子.想拥有爱,就勇敢地去爱.完美的爱不需要装假正经,也不怕旁人说三道四.只要用心灵去爱,而不是用眼睛去看爱,就能拥有一份属于自己的真爱.

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