美好品格是一生的吸引力(小课堂2)

凤眼小课堂


                                                  
                                                                                                                                             
                                                                                                                                    
                      ·     ·                                                                                          ·        ·                            ·                   诚    信      ·                                                      ·       
      ·                           ·                        ·       
               ·                                    ·      智          
                                          壹次                                                                      
         ·                     家长                                       慧    ·                               
                           ·         座谈会                                                                                      
                         上,·老师提            小                                     ·                      
                            到培养孩子诚信  的                                            ·     ·                                             
                         品质时,一位爸爸               
语                                    ·               ·                               
马上站起来     ·       ·  ·        反驳:                            ·  ·                     
                  “老师, 您就             ·         别误导                                         ·                         
                   我们了 ,   如                  今到处 伪劣,                                                                            
                              
我们教孩子诚信, 不是明摆着子                                           ·                     
                      傻吗? 紧接着,一位妈妈也出来                                                                 
: " 我的孩子就是吃了                                            
                  实的亏呀!"                                                                                                          
                        
                                



          
                            

                                                                                                      

                                                                                                                                           
                                                              那次老师出的题很难,只有两个                             
                  
                     
           孩   子能做出来,其它孩子为了完成   作                   
                                      都去抄那两个孩子的, 老师知道后  非                
                
                      常   生气,就让抄了作业的孩子站起来承  认                
                                         的孩子和另外十几个孩子都老老实实  的                
                                         起来,但也有不少抄了作业的孩子没  有                
                                          起来,结果,站起来的孩子不仅挨了  批                 
                                      评   还被罚做题二十遍,  而那些没有站   起                
                                            的孩子却都逃避了惩罚,啥事都   没                  
                                                有,您说我还能教孩子诚信吗?”                         

                                               
                   
                                            
                                         
 

                                       
       
                                   
                                                                              


                                                   应该           说这                                              
                                                         两位       家长                                                         
                                                              的    质                                                        
                 
                                                        
          的                                        
                                                                        确      反                                                                                            
                                                                        映了      一些                                                         
                                                 实际            问题                                      


                                                                             




                                                        接着,老师                                                   
                    问那位爸爸:          “您痛恨 假冒劣吗?"                                          
                 “怎么不恨?我还因此食                  中过                                           
               呢!”老     师又问:                  ”那么,                                             
                                       您想改     变这种                现状                                                   
                                 吗?"   “怎么不                 想?                                               
                   做梦都      想! 可              我                                                 
                                                          一个普                                  通                           
                                         百      
                                     
                       姓,    想,                                    
                        又有什么                                       
                         用?!”                                      


           老师说:                                                                                        
                                   “然有用! 要想从根本上改变这种                                        
             状况,靠的就是我们每一位爸爸妈妈                                        
             从我们自己孩子的教育开始;如果我                                        
             们的孩子都不搞假冒伪劣,他们将来                                        
             就能拥有更美好的生存环境。是不是                                        
              这个理儿?”那位爸爸听后                                                    
                     若有所思。                         
                                                                                                  
                          

 


              

             老师又问
            那位        妈妈:
         “您的孩子后
           来还     抄作业           吗?"       “不抄  
        ,哪    还     敢呢."           次的        
           后           来     会         作  了       吗 ?“              
            "当然会了,罚              作  二     十     遍,               
                                 那      印象  
                                多深呀 !"
 
          老师说:
           ”就是您孩子诚实得来的收获。孩子得到
            了他抄作业应有的惩罚,由于反复练习,便
            熟悉了这些难题的解法。更重要的是,通过
            这次惩罚,让孩子从小知道,欺骗的代价是
            巨大的;这个教训使他以后不再抄作业,长
            大成为诚实可靠值得信赖的人。而那些逃避
              了惩罚的孩子,就失去了这宝贵的成长机会。
 
                                                                                         
  
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文章评论

娟儿

是啊!孩子们是未来的主人,我们的责任重大,要好好教育孩子,谢谢老师的文章,看了之后有很大的感触!!![em]e110[/em]

好运来

嗯,草儿的美文很有启迪--受益多多![em]e100[/em][em]e179[/em][em]e6105[/em]

春天小雨

社会的不公平存在于各个角落,诚实的孩子受到了惩罚。那些不承认的孩子怎样,老师只字未提。只要有不公平,就会有欺骗,那是诚实的人在无奈下被逼出来的。只有严惩那些不诚实和弄虚作假的人,社会才会被净化。