一、静 少说话，多倾听。因为爱说话的人，本就失去了一分宁静的美。而 且，言多必失。有句话是，三思而后行，三思而后言。即使是网络 这个靠语言交流的平台，多言也会让人讨厌的。想说话了，就对自 己说，不要对别人说 因为现在无聊几乎没有人愿意听了。 
二、缓 有句训诫是，讷于言而敏于行，而我认为，在某种情况和某种环 境下，应该是，讷于言而缓于行。我已经尝过“缓于行”的甜头 了。做事，你太快了，有时候你刚做好，反而又认为不需要做了。 缓，还有个好处，就是可以在别人失 败的基础上，走成功的捷径，正反是做业务的人， 就不需要缓字来抢市场了。 关键是太能干的人，会成为嫉妒和防备的对象。 
三、忍 面对不公，别气愤，别宣泄。一来气愤伤身体，二来气愤等于零 只 要“有肚量去容忍那些不能改变的事，有勇气去改变那些可 能改变的事，有智能去区别上述两类事。这是成功者要具备的三 个素质。既然有些事情不是个人能力所能作为的，何不冷眼旁观 呢？宣泄不满，只会让旁人看戏。 
四、让 大是大非，不能退让，但小事情，尽量听别人的意见。能按别 人的意见办的，就不坚持己见。退一步，海阔天空, 而且如果 是按别人的意见办的，错误也就有所分担。 
五、淡 一切都看淡些。对名利，对金钱，对感情。没有什么是离开了就不 能活了的东西。得失也是辩证的，你在这方面损失了，你的心灵会 得到释放，会有机会去尝试别的选择。越是看得淡，就越是心灵平 静，就越能体会平凡的幸福。 
六，平 是平凡，是平淡，是平衡。有棱角的坏处，就是让别人咬起你来很 容易下口。 尽管平凡的人，没有什么色 彩，但往往生存的时间最 长。人要活得精彩。有朋友说 “对工作，要信奉唯物主义；对生活，要信奉唯心主义。”因此我 们需要有亲密的朋友，要有自己展露思想的安全空间。在那里，我 们就可以显示我 们的不平凡了。 祝好朋友们永远开心快乐 |
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