好日子的标准很难界定
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好日子的标准很难界定
好多人都说穷日子难过，我从不怀疑这种说法，因为我以前经历过了。过去与现在相比真的没法比，社会前进了，环境改变了，条件改善了，科技发展了，人的思维也在不断的更新变换，欲望不同，追求也不同。
好日子不好过，这是从前没有想到的。因为什么叫好日子，很难界定。温饱不愁了，还有山珍海味呢？别人能够吃到我不能吃到，就不觉得自己的日子好。你有住房了，那边却竖立了别墅群；公共汽车不拥挤了，大路上却跑过来一辆私人的豪华轿车；你开始吃肉了，时尚标榜的却是吃野菜；你穿得整整齐齐了，流行的却是穿的越少越好；你的工资提高了。有人赚的钱却是成百上千万。因此，我们的耳朵里，听到的一片声音，都是说：现在的日子真是难过！
好日子是难过得多。好日子弹性太大，物质太多，信息太多，诱惑太多，个人的选择却比穷日子还要少，不是你想要什么就有什么的。而在穷日子里，发自内心的要求就是吃饱肚子。想想在贵州的偏远山区，在小凉山的深处，四川的深山里头，到处都可以看到，大人和小孩子，只要吃饱了，就会很安详地坐着晒太阳，甜蜜的打盹，万事不挂心。目光温和得如新生羊羔。穷日子固然难过，但容易满足。穷日子难过的是肚子，好日子难过的是心情。心情好不起来，吃了什么都不好吃都不香。
原来，好日子不仅仅是物质的，更是精神的。好日子是皮囊，需得人为地填充灵魂。这灵魂哪里来？读书得来，修养得来，智慧得来，安静中得来，爱意中得来，松弛中得来；不烦躁的时候得来，不虚荣的时候得来，不贪婪的时候得来；懂得珍惜的时候得来，懂得尊重他人的时候得来，懂得维护健康的时候得来。
好日子就在自己的手中，像泥鳅鱼一样，抓住它要有把握的技巧。偏偏就是这个技巧，人们不是那么容易把握，真的叫人难过。
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