╭*★*╯我是為你好╭*★*╯

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『我是為你好。』是我們常常用的一個藉口。

我們不會為不相識的人好，不會為鄰居好，也不會為一個泛泛之交好，我們只為我們所愛的人好。

因為出發點是如此崇高，於是我們可以理直氣壯地說：

『你不要再跟那個人來往了，他很討厭！』

『你不要穿這種衣服，你穿起來難看死了。』

『你不該讀這個課程，只有傻瓜才會認為有用。』

『你不可以看些比較有深度的書嗎？這些全都是垃圾。』

我們總是喜歡把自己的價值和喜好強加於喜歡的人身上。

既然我喜歡他，他也喜歡我，那麼，我喜歡的東西，他也該喜歡。我討厭的，他也應該討厭。

一旦這個做法不得逞，我們不禁滿肚委屈，覺得自己的好意被辜負了。假使我不在乎你，我才不管呢！我是為你好，如果你是別人，我才不理你！

問題是：我們自己的價值和喜好又是否真的比較好呢？

我們也許也忘了，當我們懷念一個人的時候，懷念的並不是他的價值和喜好，而是他讓我成為我自己。

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