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文章中的女兒總是向父親抱怨生活中事事都那麽艱難。父親把她帶進厨房，拿出三只鍋，先往鍋里各倒入一些水，然後把它們放到旺火上燒。不久鍋裏的水燒開了，父親把胡蘿蔔，鶏蛋和咖啡豆分別放入三只鍋中繼續煮，大約20
父親解釋說，這三樣東西都面臨同樣的逆境——煮沸的開水，但其反應各不相同。胡蘿蔔入鍋之前是强壯的，結實的，毫不示弱，但進入開水之後，它變軟了，變弱了。鶏蛋原來是易碎的，它薄薄的外殼保護者它呈液體的內髒，但是經開水一煮，它的內髒變硬了。而粉狀的咖啡豆則很獨特，進入沸水之後，它們倒改變了水。他問女兒：“哪個是你呢？當逆境找上門來時，你如何反應？你是胡蘿蔔，是鶏蛋，還是咖啡豆？”
看到這裏，我也著實地好好地拿這個父親地問題問問我自己。是啊，人的一生不可能是一帆風順的，總會有這樣或那樣的挫折，在艱難和逆境面前，我會怎麽辦呢？其實，逆境是不能改變的，但我們可以選擇自己面對逆境的態度，我們可以選擇放弃，就象那胡蘿蔔一樣，也可以選擇把自己變得更堅强，如那只鶏蛋，還可以選擇改變環境，象咖啡豆。人生就是一次次自主選擇的結果。如果當我面臨逆境的選擇時，我會選擇做一只鶏蛋和一顆咖啡豆。雖然外殼(
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花儿
“逆境是不能改变的，但我们可以选择自己面对逆境的态度。” 我应该选择做鸡蛋，但是我遇到困难还是有软弱的时候。
冰雪不聪明
[ft=#00ff00,4,][B] 我也希望我是咖啡豆，但是我自问我没有那么大的力量，我不可能去改变水的性质，就像在生活中，我不可能有那么大的力量去改变环境，我觉得我只是一根胡萝卜，一遇到困难就不知道怎么办？幸亏，在我身后有一个理解我、体谅我、为我撑开一片小天空的大树，所以，我又是幸运的。[/B][/ft][em]e100[/em]
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