两种东西最无用
个人日记
世上有两种东西最无用:
一是 后悔:事情发生了,你唯一的方向是面对。即使不断回顾,怨天尤人,内疚不安,长夜饮泣..........恨不得从未发生过,后悔为什么让它发生,如果从头再来,又会.........但愿有另一局面,都是自己不好,如果可以的话...........以上一切,全部无用,不但没有一丝一毫的补救,还耽误了收拾残局的心情和速度。
二是同情:事情发生了,愁苦哀伤,一败涂地,恩消爱泯,身心历劫.........总有旁人来安慰你,表示同情,但他们所作所为,皆属虚幻,口惠而实不至。弄不好还令伤口撕裂,难以痊愈。真的同情,你多少可以得到些安慰。假的同情,那副嘴脸,落井下石,雪上加霜。
———如何使自己站起来,才是最重要的。
所以,我们不需要这些挡路石、绊马索,它们是令你无法脱身的泥沼。
痛苦也好,快乐也好,都是“收获”和“教训”。二者合起来,便“痛快”———忘记背后,努力向前,向着标竿直跑。
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两种东西最有用:痛苦和忧郁!!
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