网络友情如何长久
个人日记
网络中的形象和现实中的人有很大差异。我们通过网络在心目中建立的对方形象里搀杂着很多自己的主观想象。要想建立起比较深厚的友情，必须要让对方真实的了解你，在相互了解的过程中，慢慢建立起你与对方友情发展的基础。 怎么做呢，有朋友告诉我“淡而长久”，也就是保持互相的好感，但不过深接触。保持距离也就保证了各自的空间，避免了不和谐事情的出现和矛盾的产生。各自的美可以将对方维系，在你想对方时流露，不想时可以放在一边。但显然，这个度是很难把握的。太淡了则很容易忘却，太浓了则避免不了激情，以及激情之后的矛盾，误会，冷落。 总保持不远不近的距离不一定有好处，距离会产生美，但距离会让你认为对方无足重轻。淡淡的友情随时会受到新朋友的冲击。 我不反对有激情，没有碰撞，就不会深刻而留下印记。但激情的来临必须是较充分的了解后，不要给自己的美好感觉所迷惑。
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