╭*★*╯夫妻感情最大的隐患是什么？╭*★*╯

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本来恩爱的一对夫妻，因为相互的

猜忌或者某一方的猜忌，夫妻生活从此蒙上

阴影，甚至走向感情反目的不归路，这决不是危

言怂听之语。丈夫怀疑妻子与他人关系暧昧，妻子疑

心丈夫与其他女人态度亲昵，婚姻从此有了隐忧，你怀疑

我，我猜测你，相互试探，犹如躲迷藏一般，把人弄得筋疲

力尽。被猜忌一方像是惊弓之鸟，不知如何去做才能消除对方

的猜忌，有时越说越乱越抹越黑，本想下次做好些以减除对方

的怀疑，却不料想又引来另一层猜忌，如此怎会活得不累？而

猜忌的一方也同样不轻松，整日魂不守舍疑心疑鬼，她/他是

个随便的人吗？是不是又在跟人玩暧昧？为什么他/她今天

回家比以前晚？为什么他/她没有及时接电话？是不是

他/她心中有了其他的人？每天就这样活在一串串

的疑问与猜测之中，不疲不累才怪。

 

夫妻之间当然难免会有误会，心中有

疑问不妨打开天窗说亮话，一味的暗示或悄

悄地跟踪的方式显然不妥。很多的夫妻不和或离婚

事件正是由于夫妻间的误会和猜忌引起的。有时夫妻的

一方与异性交往，或是因为工作繁忙应酬较多回家晚，甚至

有时夜不归宿，很容易引来另一方的猜疑。也许有人会说，这些

猜忌纯属夫妻感情不深所致，如果夫妻感情基础好，根本就不会

存在猜忌，这话有一定的道理，但又不全对感情是个很复杂的东西

现实的情况是，猜忌可以源于彼此感情不深，担心对方的不忠，也

可能源于感情太深，怕失去对方特别是如果对方曾经有过感情的

出格，虽然那只是一时的糊涂，但这种后续的影响不可小视

作为当事者更应努力在以后的生活中以实际行动去消除对

方的顾虑和猜忌，而作为猜忌一方，既然你爱他/她

而且对他/她的过去你也表示接受并原谅

 

那么你就应该去充分信任他/她，相

信他/ ­她会做好。遇到有疑问的地方，坦诚

地说出来， ­但要注意语气和用词，如此夫妻感情

就能步入一个良性循环的轨道。­ ­有人说，婚姻始于爱

情，但却不能仅仅靠爱情来维持婚姻，婚姻的维系更需要

夫妻双方的彼此理解和信任。现如今，出轨婚外情现象较

之以前确实变得愈发司空见惯，对于感情大家似乎很随便

一夜情也似乎不是什么大不了的事这一切让夫妻之间的

信任受到一定的挑战，夫妻间的误解会越来越多，在

这种情况下，夫妻要学会适时化解彼此的误会双

方更要努力做好自已以减少对方的疑虑

 

  

正如毁树容易种树难，自已一时糊

涂没做好可能毁了平日辛辛苦苦建立起来的信

任，更可能让你爱的人整日生活在惶恐与猜忌之中，最

终的结果必然是他累你也累。所以，夫妻双方都要做好自已

值得对方信任，对得起对方对自已的信任其次在做好自已的同

时更要充分信任对方 如此，夫妻之间的感情就会像好酒一样越

陈越香。猜忌是婚姻生活的一颗毒瘤，聪明的夫妻懂得如何一

起努力去巧妙化解，被猜忌的一方要做好自已，猜忌的一方

要多些信任与释然，相互理解、信任忠诚，减少误解，加

强沟通，避免因猜忌毁掉美好感情和幸福婚姻

祝天下的夫妻永远恩爱美满幸福。

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