现在的我，已经懂得珍惜，已经学会坚强。社会的复杂，生活的艰辛，让我有足够充分的准备承受挫折。不能再作小女人状，见了老鼠不敢打，见了虫子也害怕，因为女儿需要你；丈夫更需要你同甘共苦；他们需要的是团结协作，互帮互助。曾几何时我是那么爱哭，恨很地发誓都无法止住那不呼即来的眼泪。如今的我，不是感情麻木，而是没有时间也没有理由动不动就哭！
现在的我，已经学会独立。不要再将自己扮作怨妇，没有人会真正可怜你！二十一世纪是竞争的世纪，是一个越来越男女平等的世纪，如果你没有足够大的后盾，那么靠天靠地靠男人都不如靠自己。女人应该奉献，同样应该索取，没有人可以漠视你，除非你自己！
现在的我，已经懂得女人应该善待自己。女人不是男人身上的一根肋骨，应该留一点时间和空间给自己；累了，孩子的事情一天不管也不会一塌糊涂；累了，凌乱的家可以暂时不收拾，看看电影,听听流行的歌曲，让声道音响环绕自己，使那神经松弛。我不会也做不到象母辈那样伟大——生命中为了儿女,油盐酱醋，没有自己。生活并非全部如意，心情也有春夏秋冬。
现在的我，逐渐学会了宽容。虽然脾气依然有点急，但是遭人误解的时候，不再想每次都理论清楚，而是心里默默地说：或许我也会犯同样的错误。
现在的我，逐渐学着放弃。现在的我，比任何时候都清楚自己想要什么，不想要什么，不是你的想得也得不到。虚名与浮利于我已无所谓有无，工作着是快乐，奉献着是幸福，应得的报酬心安理得。知足常乐。俗话说：“退一步海阔天空”，有些事并不是某个人能左右得了的，是非曲直自有公论，当自己耄耋之年时回首往事，但求问心无愧，无论为人、处事。
今天我要大声跟自己说一声，生日快乐，快乐地过好每一天！
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