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杂谈人生
   我们常听人们说"人生如梦,梦似人生","人生就像一场梦"和"人生本是一出戏"等等......可是,在下有一点儿不同的看法,我认为人们更像是"烹调师"和"酿酒师"!

人们来到这个世界上,就是为了烹调一桌美味佳肴和酿造一坛葡萄美酒而已!除了"原材料"要保证质量之外,"技法"更是至关重要!客观因素不可或缺,但主观因素起着决定性作用!

一对男女,从相识,相恋,相爱直到走进婚姻殿堂,无时无刻不是在制做他们的美味呢!难道不是吗?
  
   这需要俩人共同为之奋斗和努力,二者缺一不可!即便是这样,由于"技法"的不同"和"原材料"的差异,制造出来的"菜肴"和"酒水"千差万别,可口香甜的,称得上真正意义上的"美味"凤毛麟角!!!

大多数只是马马虎虎,有些可口罢了!特别是遇到挑剔的人你简直就不会"做饭"了!人能创造出核武器，航天飞机，甚至登上月球等等等等，但是，惟独在人际关系，婚姻关系，家庭关系，子女关系等方面难以做的很好，特别是婚姻方面难上加难！！

试问，世上真正意义上的美满婚姻又有多少呢？那只是一个难以追求的＂梦想＂罢了！！！所以才有＂难得糊涂＂，＂知足常乐＂，＂得过且过＂，＂有理让三分＂等这些词句！故，人们一定要有一颗诚实，善良，包容，宽容的感恩的心！要经常换位思考，多角度，全方位地看待对方！尽量创造融洽的生活氛围，从而达到和谐家庭，美满婚姻之目的！这样才能与时惧进，共同创造美好之未来！！！

在下才疏学浅，敬请指教！          


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