不要在你伤心的时候为难你自己
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人生在世，不如意事十有八九。
就象天有不测风云，月有阴晴圆缺一样。
你不必惊慌失措，意志消沉，更不能自怨自哀，
逆来顺受，你首先要学会安慰自己。
你才能驱走心灵上的“冰霜”，从而赢来一米阳光。 大千世界，芸芸众生，唯有人的情感最丰富： 喜、怒、哀、乐、酸、甜、苦、辣。 它象是上天布置在人生路上的一道道关卡， 考验着每一个过往的行者。
你千万别把自己弄的遍体鳞伤！ 人，有时仿佛就为感情、事业、家庭而活。 而诸多的不开心，伤心也仿佛都由此而来。 可是我们又无法去挑战没有它们的日子，
遇到伤心的时候，不要只知道流泪， 要学会把自己的坏心情暂放一边， 好好地疼爱自己一回。 其实生活原本就有太多的不完美，想想看， 你如此的伤悲到底伤害到了谁？ 如果你真的伤心了，你可以找个知心的朋友， 沐浴一下阳光，你可以放上一段自己喜欢的歌曲， 温暖你的心房，你还可以善待一下自己， 买一些你平时想买但舍不得买的东西来慰劳自己， 还可以到美发厅给自己整个自己喜欢的发型来取悦自己……… 因为在这个世上，或许---爱你的人不止一个， 可真正和你形影不离，冷暖相知的只有你自己。 如果连你自己都不懂得爱惜你自己，那么你还能祈求谁呢？ 所以，千万不要在你伤心的时候为难你自己。
疼惜自己，用理智调整好自己的心态，
当“伤心”光顾你的时候，
所以我们只能选择修炼我们自己，
不要让自己活得太狼狈，
倾诉衷肠，你也可以找个清幽的地方，吹吹风，
要学会疼惜自己，爱护自己。
不要在你伤心的时候为难你自己
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